Findom isn't about me needing money or wanting it, it's about submission, being humble and worshipping that in which is above you. A mans ego is directly connected to two things; his money and his penis. Control over both is always what I seek. Giving everything to your mistress, because you know it's better in her hands anyways. You put your life in her hands, and your life includes your finances. You are not worshipping your goddess if you are not paying her, or giving her gifts. Kings and Queens are given riches. People used to give sacrifices to the Gods, why would it be any different with This Goddess?
I've always loved being in control, being given things..having people want to impress me or make me happy with gifts or money. I want to be successful in my life, money is a fetish. I am going to be in school for Business and Finance..because it’s not just others peoples money I want, I also want my own. Your money just aids in building my empire, but you are not needed for it. Always remember.
My beauty always worked to my advantage, old men wanted to buy me things and my mom had to explain that is was “wrong” for men to try and buy your affection. She was right. They should offer without expectations, and appreciate whatever they are given.
I didn't fully understand what it was when I was younger but as I grew and dove fully into the femdom world I began to appreciate that true domination, is full domination. Finances being one of the most delicate things one can control, that is the real power source (and your balls) as long as I have them both in my hand.. i can achieve anything. In all a sub can do, he should always financially serve his mistress, to work for her, so she can live lavishly.
I do not just do financial domination (unless otherwise stated in my financial domme sessions offerings) strictly, it should be incorporated into a d/s relationship. I don't take slaves who cannot commit working towards being owned, those who can will be sent collars upon ownership. Ownership does not come easy, only the truly devoted will survive.